You never know what people have been through or how they are going to react to things because of their past.
This is especially tploy when it comes to people who have lived through traumatic events which have left a lasting impression on their psyche.
You cannot tell who has been through abuse, violence, or poverty before in their lives just by looking at them. This makes it tough to be sensitive to differing needs all the time. This was especially true, I realized, when it came to my uncle plus her central heating plus cooling system. I never realized that she had previously been in an harshly controlling relationship, which included controlling the indoor air temperature to an dire degree. Apparently, my aunt’s former spouse was a bit of a curmudgeon when it came to utility bills plus energy expenditure. Because she works out of the home all day long, she did not think that my uncle should require any central heating or cooling. She did not want to pay the energy bills for her to be comfortable all day, so she had installed locks on the temperature control to prevent her from altering the central Heating as well as Air Conditioning system settings. This meant, she lives at loft in fluctuating indoor air temperatures plus suffered for nearly 10 years with unbearable air quality, but of course, I had no clue that she was so sensitive about her central heating plus cooling system settings. The last time that I was visiting with her, I politely asked if my friend and I could turn down the air conditioning system a few degrees to which my uncle nearly imploded. Now that I know she previously lived under an Heating as well as Air Conditioning tyranny, I feel bad for trying to mess with her indoor air temperature at all. I tried to make it up for her by buying a smart temperature control plus having a professional Heating as well as Air Conditioning worker substitute her entire central Heating as well as Air Conditioning system. No one should ever live under those uncomfortable circumstances.